Emergency Hair Help Please?

I have very curly/frizzy hair and this works for me: Get a VERY moisturizing shampoo and conditioner, the curlier/frizzier the hair, the more dry it is. For your dandruff, the moisturizing shampoo and conditioner should help because dandruff is caused by a dry scalp. If you want extra soft hair, try an olive oil treatment, it works wonders. Just warm up some olive oil and put it in your hair, wrap it up in a towel for an hour. And then shampoo and condition as usual, it works wonders! :) Plus, try not to brush your hair, if it is necessary, use a wide tooth comb, but otherwise, brushing will cause breakage and make it worse.